It's your fate but it's not your fault.

Still no word from best man. that's ok, right? it's only been a day, almost two.

Should I say something to him? Maybe he feels used. Like I do. He does seem a little bit emotionally immature.

Oh well, we will wait.


Shit happens. Ocean liners hit icebergs, car accidents occur, the guy uses you. Sure, there *might* have been something you could've done to prevent it (depending on the level of prescience and omnipotence you wish to ascribe to yourself) but overall it's happened. It's done. Learn from the experience. Pick up the pieces. And MOVE ON! Because while there are a great many things in this world that one can't control, one can *always* control one's own reaction. And NO event is made *better* by panicking and finger-pointing. Not one.